"What will happen with your life?"
My back is getting better today. This morning, I went jogging for 45 mins, it's good to run when your mind is occupied with many things.
Cristine dropped by yesterday, I could guess that something bothered her, otherwise she would not insist on meeting...Apparently Hans (ex-boyfriend) called her last week, and they met (of course, Jeremy knew), he told her that he made a wrong decision to break up with her..etc, and will probably come to her wedding. What an idiot!! Instead of moving on with his life, he just keeps on moarning the old one. That's why I don't understand about men. I mean if he loves her that much, why didn't he do something about it before? When he was dating Cris, he went out with his ex.
And now Cris feel guilty, plus one of Hans' girlfriends (who is obviously also Cris' friend) asked her what Cris will do with her life. I told Cris to tell that woman to get lost, who is she to ask that sort of question. It is none of her business, and besides Cris did not have to tell her what she would do with her life. I understand how Cris is feeling right now, but she should not feel guilty about anything, Hans will get over it. She should focus on her wedding right now.
It's depressing when it comes to this sort of situations. Talking is always easy unless you are in the same shoes. It never is great when you are stuck between two persons who obviously love you. The heart of the man is usually compartmentalize into different sections for different sort of love, and usually none will get 100% of a man's heart. Maybe going out with someone that just broke up with his/her boyfriend is not a good idea, but what if that person makes you smile, and you can be so natural around them, making silly jokes...there is nothing hidden because you both know what lie in between, maybe you think start with friendship does not hurt? It all gets complicated unless you have no feelings for one of them, but if you do, you start thinking about it, brings headache. It doesn't take a long time for a man to fall in love, and it probably will not take them a long time to get bored either. Isn't it scary? It certainly puts me in a bad mood.
Talking about Cris's wedding, her wedding dress seems to be ok now after several remade, of course the cost is now 3500 Eur, she doesn't know how much it would finally cost. Well, it's better be the perfect dress then for Cris ;-). "You should have been my bridemaid" ;-), she said when I showed her the Shanghai style dress that I had it made in VN.
BTW, do people burn their under-wear on hen's nite? Apparently this is sort of Belgian tradition, I personally think it really is gross!!! Gosh, sometimes I really am surprised with how "creative" people can be.
Cristine dropped by yesterday, I could guess that something bothered her, otherwise she would not insist on meeting...Apparently Hans (ex-boyfriend) called her last week, and they met (of course, Jeremy knew), he told her that he made a wrong decision to break up with her..etc, and will probably come to her wedding. What an idiot!! Instead of moving on with his life, he just keeps on moarning the old one. That's why I don't understand about men. I mean if he loves her that much, why didn't he do something about it before? When he was dating Cris, he went out with his ex.
And now Cris feel guilty, plus one of Hans' girlfriends (who is obviously also Cris' friend) asked her what Cris will do with her life. I told Cris to tell that woman to get lost, who is she to ask that sort of question. It is none of her business, and besides Cris did not have to tell her what she would do with her life. I understand how Cris is feeling right now, but she should not feel guilty about anything, Hans will get over it. She should focus on her wedding right now.
It's depressing when it comes to this sort of situations. Talking is always easy unless you are in the same shoes. It never is great when you are stuck between two persons who obviously love you. The heart of the man is usually compartmentalize into different sections for different sort of love, and usually none will get 100% of a man's heart. Maybe going out with someone that just broke up with his/her boyfriend is not a good idea, but what if that person makes you smile, and you can be so natural around them, making silly jokes...there is nothing hidden because you both know what lie in between, maybe you think start with friendship does not hurt? It all gets complicated unless you have no feelings for one of them, but if you do, you start thinking about it, brings headache. It doesn't take a long time for a man to fall in love, and it probably will not take them a long time to get bored either. Isn't it scary? It certainly puts me in a bad mood.
Talking about Cris's wedding, her wedding dress seems to be ok now after several remade, of course the cost is now 3500 Eur, she doesn't know how much it would finally cost. Well, it's better be the perfect dress then for Cris ;-). "You should have been my bridemaid" ;-), she said when I showed her the Shanghai style dress that I had it made in VN.
BTW, do people burn their under-wear on hen's nite? Apparently this is sort of Belgian tradition, I personally think it really is gross!!! Gosh, sometimes I really am surprised with how "creative" people can be.
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