Relationship crisis, when we realise we sh*t in the same toitlet
Not a lot of writing last two days because I had a small accident. my right eye was hit by a friend who practices kungfu :-). It made an erosion, and hurted a lot but now it gets a lot better.
I went to shop with the girls this morning, not really a major shopping day as being as serious as we are re.shops, we are waiting for the major sales, which is soon coming. But I ended up buying new bikini (hmm, now that I think about it, I shoudn't have bought it, but I just look good in them, ok to wear them to take the sun, no?).
On the way, we saw Marzio's girlfriend. I told Sofia, Sofia tried to look but couldn't. When we left one of the shops, the girl entered another one, so Sofia said "let's enter, so I can have a look at her" :-) women, women, women...why do we care, anyway ?:-). Sofia got all she wanted, then we got out of the shop "she recognized you" Sofia said to me. I asked "why do you think that?" "well, she looked at you". Hmm, so Marzio doesn't take her to the wedding in Italy then, weird. Anyway, I don't really care.
We went shopping in Colroye later, needed to buy some vodkas, matini and red wines for Sweden-it is the mid summer party. I still have to buy a white or flower skirt for that...The guy at the counter told us not to consume all the bottles that we bought this weekend :-)).
On the way back, Sofia told me that she and Luc had a row because they didn't know where their relationship is leading to. Yeah, typical relationship stuffs: "where are we?", "where is this going?", "what is the future?", "babies, houses, loans, morgages" h*ll load of things to think about..etc. It is scary to live together with someone, of course at the beginning, it is all rosy and sweet, but after a while things become mundane, and we just stop talking, there is nothing we feel like doing together. We forget about butterflies, the excitements, the kissing...Yep, the only thing we remember is we now sh*t and share the toilet. Excuse my language, but that's how it is. That's sad, and as most people would say "that's life!!", like it helps :-).
Couples should talk about what makes them happy, they should save time for each other no matter how busy they are with work and all. I see many people in Sony work their *ss off, and for what? is that worth to live for? We forget that we work to live, not vice versa. And then, husbands leave wives to start a new life...Unfortunately, love is like a tree, a living entity, if we don't feed or nurture it, it will dry up and die. Every couples have up and down moments, but I think if there is love, it is worth to fight for!
Noone is perfect, only love makes us complete. If we have one person whose every bit is different from us, and somehow we love that person, that person is our other haft. Because then we are complete, and because without the other, we fall apart.
One thing to remeber though, if things still don't work out, keep dignity to gain respect. After all, we loved and were loved.
Treat others the way we want them to treat us. That's my motto.
I went to shop with the girls this morning, not really a major shopping day as being as serious as we are re.shops, we are waiting for the major sales, which is soon coming. But I ended up buying new bikini (hmm, now that I think about it, I shoudn't have bought it, but I just look good in them, ok to wear them to take the sun, no?).
On the way, we saw Marzio's girlfriend. I told Sofia, Sofia tried to look but couldn't. When we left one of the shops, the girl entered another one, so Sofia said "let's enter, so I can have a look at her" :-) women, women, women...why do we care, anyway ?:-). Sofia got all she wanted, then we got out of the shop "she recognized you" Sofia said to me. I asked "why do you think that?" "well, she looked at you". Hmm, so Marzio doesn't take her to the wedding in Italy then, weird. Anyway, I don't really care.
We went shopping in Colroye later, needed to buy some vodkas, matini and red wines for Sweden-it is the mid summer party. I still have to buy a white or flower skirt for that...The guy at the counter told us not to consume all the bottles that we bought this weekend :-)).
On the way back, Sofia told me that she and Luc had a row because they didn't know where their relationship is leading to. Yeah, typical relationship stuffs: "where are we?", "where is this going?", "what is the future?", "babies, houses, loans, morgages" h*ll load of things to think about..etc. It is scary to live together with someone, of course at the beginning, it is all rosy and sweet, but after a while things become mundane, and we just stop talking, there is nothing we feel like doing together. We forget about butterflies, the excitements, the kissing...Yep, the only thing we remember is we now sh*t and share the toilet. Excuse my language, but that's how it is. That's sad, and as most people would say "that's life!!", like it helps :-).
Couples should talk about what makes them happy, they should save time for each other no matter how busy they are with work and all. I see many people in Sony work their *ss off, and for what? is that worth to live for? We forget that we work to live, not vice versa. And then, husbands leave wives to start a new life...Unfortunately, love is like a tree, a living entity, if we don't feed or nurture it, it will dry up and die. Every couples have up and down moments, but I think if there is love, it is worth to fight for!
Noone is perfect, only love makes us complete. If we have one person whose every bit is different from us, and somehow we love that person, that person is our other haft. Because then we are complete, and because without the other, we fall apart.
One thing to remeber though, if things still don't work out, keep dignity to gain respect. After all, we loved and were loved.
Treat others the way we want them to treat us. That's my motto.
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