Real love
For a long time, many people try to understand or in quest of real love, each of us give our version of what real love is...
Me, for a long time I think I know, it was all simple as " when you love, you give without asking in return, no conditions, no nothing, you just know that you want to do everything for the one you love". Of course, the concept has not changed much but now I am confused of whether I know how love is all about. Is it when you feel butterflies in your stomach? Is it when your knee feel weak when you are hold? Is it when every kiss is sweet like candy? Is it when everything the other person does become cute and nice? Is it when you want only you with them and not someone else in between?
Maybe loving someone is easier than letting someone to love us. Why? I guess it is because you can just let your love roam free, it is somehow controlled (maybe this is not a good word...) because it is in you whereas when you let someone love you, it becomes a little bit more complicated (I am talking in the sense that you let someone respond to your love for them), and of course when you have more than one person love you, it becomes a real torture...
Although I believe we are being matched without our permissions and choices :-), I still wonder what happens if one misses chances to let his or her "other haft" go unconciously? have you ever felt incomplete? Have you ever in a relationship wondered there might be someone else better come along? When that someone comes along, will you try to make things happen or will you let your chances go by?
I try to look for answers but I just get more confused :-), will it be best to let fate decide or is it better that you take things in your own hands and make them happen? What if you are not really the one who need to make decisions? will you stay and wait? or will you decide to move on because you are tired of waiting?
Anyway, gotta go, long day at school today, and this afternoon course is quite important!
Me, for a long time I think I know, it was all simple as " when you love, you give without asking in return, no conditions, no nothing, you just know that you want to do everything for the one you love". Of course, the concept has not changed much but now I am confused of whether I know how love is all about. Is it when you feel butterflies in your stomach? Is it when your knee feel weak when you are hold? Is it when every kiss is sweet like candy? Is it when everything the other person does become cute and nice? Is it when you want only you with them and not someone else in between?
Maybe loving someone is easier than letting someone to love us. Why? I guess it is because you can just let your love roam free, it is somehow controlled (maybe this is not a good word...) because it is in you whereas when you let someone love you, it becomes a little bit more complicated (I am talking in the sense that you let someone respond to your love for them), and of course when you have more than one person love you, it becomes a real torture...
Although I believe we are being matched without our permissions and choices :-), I still wonder what happens if one misses chances to let his or her "other haft" go unconciously? have you ever felt incomplete? Have you ever in a relationship wondered there might be someone else better come along? When that someone comes along, will you try to make things happen or will you let your chances go by?
I try to look for answers but I just get more confused :-), will it be best to let fate decide or is it better that you take things in your own hands and make them happen? What if you are not really the one who need to make decisions? will you stay and wait? or will you decide to move on because you are tired of waiting?
Anyway, gotta go, long day at school today, and this afternoon course is quite important!
posted by Vagabonder @ 1:30 PM
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