"Living with a man is difficult" :-)
A statement from a friend of mine, and it is NOT new!!
This morning when I was on the way to go to school, in the subway, a lady dragged her two daughters, both of them are still young, everything was like a mess, the younger just kept on crying without reasons, sitting on the floor of the underground, poor mother just had to deal with that...I wonder if I ever ready to be a mother :-).
Will I be a good mother? Gosh, I was born to be a good one heheheheh! Kidding, not good but maybe cool? :-)
Just think of a typical morning where instead of staying as long as you want in bed, then getting up, slowly get your breakfast, read news, then prepare your day...you will have to rush, get up earlier than everyone, prepare breakfast but NOT for you, for your kid and Mr Husband, then probably lunches, get the children to school, and maybe being late for work? :-) I guess, the women nowadays are staying more attention of what they can achieve in their personal career than what they can achieve in their family. Is this good or bad?
Well, that all depends on what are the expectation of the gentlemen and how much a woman is willing to give up somehow a part of her POSSIBLE personal achievements. Yeah yeah, you will say but there is no "give up" in love. I'll tell you unfortunately there is, for women at least. A lot!!! You will have to stay home longer to take care of the kid, which means when you are back to work, it is all different because other women chose not to make baby, but make their career.
Anyway, that's another subject. Yesterday, one of my friend called me, and during the conversation, she suddenly said "Gosh, living with a man is difficult, Thao" :-). I was kinda suprised because it came from her, someone who is easy, caring to live with. A man should be happy to live with her. I wouldn't be easy to live with :-). Well, living with anybody is difficult, I think. But it depends on how flexible we are, and also respect other people's space.
The weekend was great, I didn't have time to reflect and write about it yet, but there are quite some important events that are eating up my brain...I think for whatever I decide, I will not regret because I have enough time to think about it, enough to talk things over with everyone...Let's see.
This morning when I was on the way to go to school, in the subway, a lady dragged her two daughters, both of them are still young, everything was like a mess, the younger just kept on crying without reasons, sitting on the floor of the underground, poor mother just had to deal with that...I wonder if I ever ready to be a mother :-).
Will I be a good mother? Gosh, I was born to be a good one heheheheh! Kidding, not good but maybe cool? :-)
Just think of a typical morning where instead of staying as long as you want in bed, then getting up, slowly get your breakfast, read news, then prepare your day...you will have to rush, get up earlier than everyone, prepare breakfast but NOT for you, for your kid and Mr Husband, then probably lunches, get the children to school, and maybe being late for work? :-) I guess, the women nowadays are staying more attention of what they can achieve in their personal career than what they can achieve in their family. Is this good or bad?
Well, that all depends on what are the expectation of the gentlemen and how much a woman is willing to give up somehow a part of her POSSIBLE personal achievements. Yeah yeah, you will say but there is no "give up" in love. I'll tell you unfortunately there is, for women at least. A lot!!! You will have to stay home longer to take care of the kid, which means when you are back to work, it is all different because other women chose not to make baby, but make their career.
Anyway, that's another subject. Yesterday, one of my friend called me, and during the conversation, she suddenly said "Gosh, living with a man is difficult, Thao" :-). I was kinda suprised because it came from her, someone who is easy, caring to live with. A man should be happy to live with her. I wouldn't be easy to live with :-). Well, living with anybody is difficult, I think. But it depends on how flexible we are, and also respect other people's space.
The weekend was great, I didn't have time to reflect and write about it yet, but there are quite some important events that are eating up my brain...I think for whatever I decide, I will not regret because I have enough time to think about it, enough to talk things over with everyone...Let's see.
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